Mar 13, 2009 - 8:46:16 AM -
It has been an unending problem in the
United States with the fact that older teens need homes among more adoptive parents and yet rarely ever get the chance.
Not only is the process of adopting an older child far easier than the adopting process of infants and toddlers, it is less time consuming for the parents in need and the availability will have more in it’s favor with a shorter waiting period
Yet another favor for older children adopting is the ability to give them a more stable home then they have previously had with bouncing from foster home to foster home or constant changing of foster care.
It also gives the parents knowledge of the older child’s past history with medical problems, mental or physical disabilities and the treatment that he or she demands instead of ones that may surface during their growing years of a toddler. That way it leaves no surprise for parents as the child adapts and gets older.
Even when it comes to the child’s set of behavior they are more settled and frequent then the ever changing ones of toddlers, and parents are more adapted to their child’s behavioral needs and wants, leaving less room as well as reason for the child to act out.
Realizing our society has a growing demand of homes for older children more adoptive parents need to take an active role in giving these teens a chance at a stable home through programs such as T.A.R.E and At Risk to help parents find the right child for adoption.